Lesbian relationships are lacking on TV

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Graphic by Alan Li

Representation is a bit of a buzzword when consideringย theย modern media. White, heterosexual, cis-gendered people try their best to include it and everyone else is desperate to see themselves well represented.

Modern media tries its best to includeย depictions of same-sexย relationships between women. Sometimes it succeeds, sometimes it fails.

A bad example isย The 100โ€™sย Lexa. Her onscreen journey is handled well enoughย and people watching the show were pleased, but when she was killed off, there was severe backlash. The backlash is understandable becauseย gayย representation isn’t good if the charactersย in questionย are killed off over the heterosexual characters.

Aย more positiveย exampleย of depictions would beย Holbyย Cityโ€™s Bernie and Serena. It’s an extremely rare example where the women come out later in their lives. They’re both middle aged, divorcedย and go on relatable journeys to accept who they are. While both characters are currently not on the show, they’re both alive and well. The story is handledย effectivelyย and is widely accepted by the LGBT+ community.

Gayย women shouldn’t have toย compromise andย โ€œjust be happyย with the factโ€ย thatย they’re seeing themselves on TV.ย Theyย should haveย accurate and positiveย representation that doesn’t involve seeing themselves shot by a stray arrow or cheating on their wives.

Two examples of representation that are wellย receivedย overall,ย but have a few flaws areย Wynonna Earpย andย The Bold Type.ย Wynonna Earpย featuresย gayย women who have a very well handled acceptance and dating storylineย โ€“ย whoย also don’t die. They, however, have an unfortunate cheating storylineย which isย anย all-too-commonย tropeย onย television.

The Bold Typeย has a Muslim lesbian and a black bisexualย womanย and the acceptance storyline is handled very well. However, similar toย Wynonna Earp,ย The Bold Typeย features a cheating storyline between the twoย women. Evenย Supergirlย โ€“ย which had one of the most wonderful coming out storylines Iโ€™ve ever seenย on TVย โ€“ย had aย story line about cheating.

Cheating storylines are often used to create drama betweenย lesbian couplesย on TV. It’s poor representation, especially when the woman is bisexual, because it perpetrates the stereotype thatย sapphicย women are cheaters.

Doctor Who, a science fiction TV series, portraysย gay relationships betweenย women better thanย manyย ย other TV shows. It has featured a canon lesbian couple from the Victorian eraย โ€“ย of which one member is a lizardย โ€“ย who are happily in love and a canon lesbian whoseย ending is extremely beautiful and fits her character very well. None of these characters have cheating storylines or haveย been killed off.

This is just a smattering of theย sapphicย women that TV has portrayed, but it’s important to have a critical view of representation.

Gayย women shouldn’t have toย compromise andย โ€œjust be happyย with the factโ€ย thatย they’re seeing themselves on TV.ย Theyย should haveย accurate and positiveย representation that doesn’t involve seeing themselves shot by a stray arrow or cheating on their wives.

Women loving women who stay alive shouldn’t be something revolutionary forย a TV show to feature.

Media needs to include everyone, because representation is so important for people of all sorts.

People aren’t all just white, heterosexualย andย cis-genderedย โ€“ย and you shouldn’t feel different and alone when engagingย withย entertainment.

Representation matters.


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