
Over the break, Kanye West went on another Twitter rampage against Drake. (What else is new?) Amidst the chaos, Ariana Grande tweeted the following:
โGuys, I know there are grown men arguing online rn but miley and I dropping our beautiful, new songs tonight so if yโall could please jus behave for just like a few hours so the girls can shine thatโd be so sick thank you.โ
It didnโt take long for Kanye West to respond:
โI know Ariana said this to be cool and didnโt mean no harm but I donโt like even slightest level of slight commentary from someone I know loves and respects me.โ
โPeople will no longer take mental health for a joke.โ
The Kanye-Ariana exchange is a perfect example of how it is very hard to disagree with people who have mental health issues without facing accusations of attacking mental health.
Ariana was not making fun of mental health; she was making fun of Kanyeโs behaviour as a human being.
But is it even possible to distinguish between the two? In other words, can Kanye the man-who-had-a-mental-breakdown be distinguished from Kanye the talented-albeit-off-his-meds creator?
Walking on eggshells is no way to live, and if people are shamed or blamed for interacting in a certain way with those suffering from mental health issues, then itโs only a matter of time before these interactions cease completely.
The answer should be a resounding yes; mental health problems are just that โ problems which need to be dealt with โbut they do not define a person. Said personโs actions and opinions, on the other hand, do define them.
The worst thing you can do is treat someone differently because of their mental health; nothing makes a person with depression more self-conscious than when you tell them they werenโt invited to get drinks because you thought theyโd be too depressed to go.
And just because someone has mental health issues does not mean theyโre โoff their rockerโ whenever their opinions donโt match yours, and that their voices should be largely ignored.
This is the reason so many people have hidden their disorders: for fear of judgement and direct or indirect retribution.
But there are two sides to every coin.
If our voices should be able to stand despite any mental health issues, they should also be able to stand against any criticisms.
If the call is for our actions to be evaluated separately from our diagnoses, then we need to be able to take what we dish out.
Being concerned for someoneโs mental health should be completely separate from disagreeing with their actions.
Walking on eggshells is no way to live, and if people are shamed or blamed for interacting in a certain way with those suffering from mental health issues, then itโs only a matter of time before these interactions cease completely.
Dividing arguments into sides where one party has mental health issues and the other party is โsaneโ should never be a debate tactic.
As Kanye vehemently states on his Twitter, he is not his mental health.
In fact, I think heโd agree with me for saying he is himself despite his mental health.
But if this is true, he needs to start taking responsibility for his actions rather than hiding behind the words โmental healthโ whenever it suits him.
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