โIn the real world, Halloween is when kids dress up inย costumes and beg for candy. In girl world, Halloween is the one day a year when a girl can dress up like a total slut and no other girls can say anything else about it.โ
So saidย Lindsey Lohanโs character Cady in the movie Mean Girls. And, letโs face it, was she wrong? Is Halloween the time women begin to exercise a sudden passion for modesty.
No, quite contrary, Halloweenย โย orย theย partiesย that occur around the holidayย โย is the one day of the year that women dress however they want. Beit a sexy fireman, sexy solider, sexy pirate, sexy school girl.
Maybeย โhoweverโย they want is too broad a term, and perhaps a more accurate phrase would be: a holiday where women are allowed to dress as scantily clad as our culture requires them to.
Off the bat, it needs to be said thatย everyone has the right to wear whatever they want. Expressing your sexualityย or identityย is something no one is allowedย to dictate for you.
That being said, thereโs an obviousย problem withย womenโs Halloween costumes.
โWe need to talk about the weather,โย Helen Ramirez, womenย and genderย studiesย instructor at Wilfrid Laurier University, exclaimed.ย โItโs dumb, so dumb to wear some of those costumes in weather like this.โ
Now, for the sake of an argument, letโs pretend for a moment that sex is a liberation for all genders. Halloween costumes then enforce a strict gender binary thatย enforces a hierarchy.
โThose costumesโ being the ones with the short skirts or shorts, and the tight sleeveless tops.ย You can go online and look at major Halloween outlets sporting something of this fashion inย magnitude underย the womenโs and girlโs subsections.
โItย points toย how much more important it is in terms of performances of oneโs identity as a woman in a still white,ย hetero-normative,ย masculine [world], in spite of the weather,โย Ramirez said.
The objectification of women isnโt exclusive to Halloween;ย but this is the onlyย holiday that fosters an exponential raise.ย You donโt see sexy virgin-mother Mary garb on Easter, however you can find a sexy nun on Halloween.
The problemย that follows women on Halloween goes like so: if you dress down and present yourself as a sexual being youโre,ย on one side, liberating yourself from the constraints of a culture that tells women they need to be virginalย and modestย until marriageย and beyond.
However,ย at the same time,ย youโre also giving into the sameย culture that conditions women from childhood to believeย thatย our bodies areย the most important thingย weย can offer the world.
Obviously, we live in a hyper-sexual world. Look at Cosmopolitan, perfume ads, clothing ads, uncomfortably dragged out sex scenes in movies. But Halloween is that one time of year where we stop pretending sex isnโt the driving force behind most media.
Women view sex as liberation, and the problem thatโs born from that is that others see the sexualization of women as a form of freedom andย equality when it can be extremely damaging.
Now, for the sake of an argument, letโs pretend for a moment that sex is a liberation for all genders. Halloween costumes then enforce a strict gender binary thatย enforces a hierarchy.
Take the policeman costume. If you look at the menโs version, itโs akin to the actual uniform, but compare the real thing to the female costume and thereโs no similarity. A short skirt and a low shirt is hardly the mandated dress wear for women in the police force, nor would we expect it to be. But, itโs Halloween, a time to be sexy and free, so why isnโt the manโs costume fun and flirty?
โOnce again, weโre demonstrating that the only good police officers can be men, the only good firefighters can be men, the only good guards can be men. It just feeds into all of that,โ Ramirez said.
โWhen we sexualize our bodies for Halloween, weโre just exemplifying that this can only be the domain of men. When women are in those roles they donโt meet the standard.โ
It becomes a power performance. Men mirror the actual uniform because men can do the job, if a woman does it, itโs for show, and thatโs the hierarchy weโve been facing since literally always.
I donโt think you should feel guilty for what you wore during Halloween โ unless you were being racist, then shame on you โ but I think we should consider whatย ourย costumes are saying. Itโs not just a sexy devil costume, or a sexy pirate or a sexy whatever you decided to be.
This wasnโt a choice you came about organically,ย this was cultural pressure, but you need to decide what that means to you.ย ย
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