
In 2011, Karen Roma didnโt expect to be spending Christmas Eve in McMaster Childrenโs Hospital in Hamilton, Ont., sitting beside her sonโs bed waiting for his blood work to come back from Harvard University.
She didnโt expect to be sitting there, surrounded by her family โ which included her other 15-year-old son โ waiting to find out if her child had leukemia.
โI was in shock. I couldnโt believe it. How could this be? He basically was a healthy kid. As a mom, you donโt think youโre going to hear that your kid has cancer, right?
โThen maybe I thought it was a mistake, but it wasnโt.โ
Nick Roma was only 17 years old and was a high school senior at Saint Paul Catholic High School in Niagara Falls when he was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL).
While most typical cases undergo 25 months of chemotherapy treatment and therapy, Nick was an irregular case. His journey was filled with complications and even his mother said heโs lucky to be alive today. Heโs considered a โmiracleโ by family and friends, and it all began with a tired feeling.
The beginning
Nick had been feeling tired in the beginning of December 2011, but he wasnโt sick often and rarely complained about pain.
But in the coming weeks, things started to change.
โHe started getting pain in his jaw, so I took him to the dentist and they told me it was his wisdom teeth. [But] when the dentist cleaned his teeth, [they were] covered in blood,โ Karen said. โThe dentist said, โI think he needs to floss better,โ but it wasnโt that at all.โ
The next day at school, Nick was in so much pain that he could barely stand up.
โKids took pictures of him lying on the ground and thinking he was joking, thinking he wanted to get out of working. They were moving desks from one place to another and he couldnโt do it,โ Karen said.
That night, Nick went home and slept for hours. His father, John, noticed something wrong and took him to the walk-in clinic to be checked.
But when the clinic told the Romas to come back in the morning for Nick to do blood work, he fainted.
โI felt very weak, tired and sore,โ Nick said. โI had no motivation to do anything at anytime.โ
The clinic didnโt have a doctor, so Nick was sent to Greater Niagara General Hospital (GNGH). According to Karen, Nickโs blood work indicated incredibly low numbers. His platelets, which are the blood cells that clot blood and stop bleeding, were at a level of 11, when they are typically between 250 and 400. His hemoglobin, a protein responsible for transporting oxygen in the blood, was at a level of 27, which are typically 150.
โI left work, I rushed to the hospital and heโs all hooked up to IVs and had blood transfusions and was on his third transfusion by the time I go there,โ Karen said.
Nick went through immediate blood transfusions at GNGH before being transferred to McMaster on Dec 23. He went through a blood marrow biopsy before having his results sent to Harvard to be evaluated. Christmas Eve, the Romas โ and Nickโs girlfriend, Kara Brown โ were given the news that Nick was diagnosed with ALL and would have to undergo immediate chemotherapy.
โThey wanted to start chemotherapy right away because it was acute and he was very close to dying at that point,โ Karen said.
โWhen he was first diagnosed I didnโt know what to expect,โ said Brown, who has stuck with Nick through the entirety of his diagnosis. โThe word โcancerโ had many things running through my mind.โ

Living with Leukemia
Generally, cancer is not very common in children. According to Carol Portwine, a pediatric hematologist oncologist with Hamilton Health Science (HHS) and associate professor with McMaster, only about 14 to 15 people in a 100,000 population are diagnosed with leukemia, a form of cancer that affects the white blood cell count in a personโs body.
Acute leukemia makes up about one third of all cases of cancer in children, and while itโs not very common, it is the most common type of cancer in children.
โLeukemia in a general statement is kind of a chameleon,โ Portwine said. โPeople can present very, very well …. Or, they can present very, very ill …. The presentation is not duplicated in any individuals. Itโs really a vast array of how any individual will present with an acute leukemia.โ
ALL is more common in children, while the other form of acute leukemia, acute myleoblastic leukemia (AML), is more common in adults. To diagnose leukemia, a blood test is taken and evaluated based on if the leukemia cells are already in the blood stream. However, a bone marrow test must also be done in order to properly observe the cancer.
โThe bone marrow is really a factory, where all the baby cells are made,โ Portwine said. โSo we want to see how the factory is doing because the factory with leukemia is producing a lot of bad cells and a lot of leukemia cells.โ
According to Portwine, there are many tests that are done to see what type of leukemia the patient has, if there are any specific genetic changes to the cells and if it could be a more favourable, or โbetterโ prognosis, or a bad prognosis. Treatment with leukemia, and specifically with ALL, is predominantly chemotherapy. Portwine said that it can include radiation depending on the severity, but everyone will receive chemotherapy.
โPeople often ask if transplant is also part of the treatment and itโs not part of the upfront therapy,โ Portwine confirmed. โSo weโd never be discussing a transplant except for very exceptional cases when based on certain tests it shows that itโs a very resistant form of ALL. But for the vast majority, itโs chemotherapy, plus or minus radiation.โ
In Nickโs case, he received treatment immediately following his diagnosis. Portwine said his treatment โ from time of diagnosis โ runs for two years and a month. The initial month is an aggressive induction of chemotherapy to get rid of all โapparent evidenceโ of the disease, and then a normal induction of therapy for the following two years.
Bright times
After a few months of treatment, Nick seemed to be doing well. He was considered an inpatient at McMaster for about six weeks in December before being allowed to live at home. He had to go to Hamilton every Thursday for chemotherapy, and received schooling from home in order to graduate on time, which was the upcoming June. He suffered hair loss from the chemotherapy and other common symptoms, but his cancer was in remission in time for the final months of his high school career.
Nick was able to attend prom with his girlfriend of over three and a half years, Brown, where the two were named prom king and queen. Just three weeks later, and six months after being diagnosed, Nick walked across the stage at his graduation with no help, an orange ribbon on his graduation robe for leukemia awareness, and received a standing ovation from his classmates and parents at Saint Paul.
โIt made me feel like I can accomplish anything no matter what the obstacle is,โ Nick said. โIt was a big thing for me.โ
โTo see him walk across the stage at grad meant so much to me,โ Brown echoed. โI was so proud to be there and witness everyone giving him a standing ovation. I was so happy he was able to attend prom with me and we were able to put everything aside for a moment and just have fun.โ
The summer
Despite Nickโs progress, things took a turn in July 2012. While Karen was in Croatia with her fiancรฉ to see his father, who was having open-heart surgery, Nick suffered a blood clot in his leg. He was taken to GNGH, but as the day went on, the prognosis got worse. Nick went through a serious infection and severe septic shock. He was transferred to McMaster to be taken care of by the same doctors that helped him seven months earlier.
โThe news got really grim,โ Karen said. โI got a message from my ex-husband saying get here quick. We called the hospital … but they wouldnโt tell me much.
When I finally got to McMaster, I couldnโt believe what I saw. I couldnโt believe that this was my child, lying there on life support. It was hell for me.โ
Nick had died three times โ once in his fatherโs arms โ and had to be resuscitated every time. Originally, he weighed 160 lbs., but because his organs were shutting down, he had to be pumped full of fluids, weighing in at 190 lbs. His fingers and toes were black. He slipped into a coma for six weeks.
โI didnโt even recognize him,โ Karen said.
The doctors at McMaster did everything possible to mend Nickโs hands and feet, which were now losing full circulation and were beginning to die. The infection caused blood clots throughout his body, in his leg, lung, heart and brain. He had his first stroke. He had a fever of over 40 degrees due to the infection.
โWhen we give chemotherapy, it knocks out all of the cells that are dividing, which include the good cells in the bone marrow,โ Portwine explained. โSo not only will the leukemia cause the number of good cells to be lower, but the chemotherapy provided will [also] certainly bring the number of good cells down. So anybody receiving chemotherapy will be at risk of infection.
โSo itโs all part of what Nick went through when he got his infection. It wasnโt just the leukemia that gave him [the infection], but it was also the chemotherapy that we gave him because that brings his counts down and makes him more susceptible to infection.โ
The infection forced Nick and his family to make a tough decision. His hands and feet were too far-gone and if the doctors didnโt amputate them, they would amputate themselves. Before that would happen, the infection would kill him.
โI knew it,โ Karen said. โBut I wasnโt prepared when they said theyโd have to come up just below the elbow and just below the knee.โ
Karen explained that the logic came down to โlife over limb.โ If the doctors didnโt amputate his limbs, Nick would die. Portwine was one of the doctors in on the discussion, along with the intensive care doctors, the orthopedic surgeons, the infectious disease doctors and the plastic surgeons.
โWhen you have an infection that is festering in a limb that you canโt get control of, sometimes you have to do something drastic to eliminate the infection,โ Portwine said. โHis limbs were very badly damaged and were not going to recover and his best chance for overall survival and recovery was to do the amputation.โ
The doctors amputated his hands and feet. Everything was successful.
But that wasnโt the end of the complications.
A week after the amputation, the doctors sat Karen down to express their concern about a blood clot in Nickโs head that caused a seven-millimetre aneurysm. The aneurysm, which is a bulge in the artery, has the potential to burst anywhere between seven to 12 months.
โIf that bursts, then he will either be paralyzed or it will kill him or make him mentally challenged,โ Karen said. โSo I said, โokay, what are my options?โโ
Karenโs options were limited immediately. Because Nick hadnโt received chemotherapy during the infection, the doctors were unsure where the cancer treatment was at and if came back aggressively. So, they had to wait.
Once the doctors had confirmed that Nickโs cancer was still in remission, they waited a month before performing the surgery. But not without complications. The surgery required that a wire go up Nickโs groin, up his arteries, all the way to the brain and coil the aneurysm, pulling it out. There was a 20 per cent chance that he could get worse. He could become paralyzed, or it could possibly kill him.
โIt was successful, the only thing was that it gave him another small stroke that affected the left side of his body. But you can never tell,โ Karen said.
By the end of the entire procedure, Nick had suffered two strokes, a brain aneurysm, went through septic shock and lost all of his limbs due to infection.
โSo when that was done, I was like, โokay, is that it?โโ Karen, relieved, said, laughing.
Brown echoed Karen. โHonestly words cannot describe how I felt this past summer with everything going on, it is something I would not wish upon anyone. It was a nightmare.โ
The recovery
March 21 became one of the Romas favourite days of the year.
Fifteen months after being diagnosed with leukemia and nine months after battling an infection, Nick was discharged from Hamilton General Hospital and walked out on his prosthetic legs.
โSince [the summer], itโs been smooth sailing,โ Karen said. โOnce they realized his cancer was still in remission, they said, โokay, thereโs hope.โ And they did everything they could, the doctors were amazing, at Mac and Hamilton General.โ
Nick has undergone intensive rehabilitation to learn how to use prosthetic arms and legs to do things normal people take for granted. With the help of his parents, his family, his girlfriend, Brown, and his brother, Jamie, heโs been able to focus on the recovery.
โI have to go to physio twice a day, where I learn how to do things that most people take for granted,โ Nick said. โLike walking, holding things, picking things up. Itโs all new again.โ
โThe therapy that Nick is in right now is actual the maintenance part of his therapy, which means he sees us in our clinic once a week for outpatient chemotherapy,โ Portwine explained. โHe takes pills at home, but he comes once a week for intravenous medication and what we call lumber punctures. Because we want to keep the fluid around his brain and spinal cord free of disease.
โSo periodically we give him chemotherapy into the area that surrounds his brain and spinal cord. He doesnโt come to us all that often anymore, itโs really all outpatient therapy unless he runs into a complication he needs admission for.โ
โIt is honestly amazing,โ Brown said of his progress. โItโs crazy to see how far he has come from where he was back in July,ย seeing him and his smile each time I go up to see him [in Hamilton] just reminds me of how something bad can turn into something so good, he is such a strong person.โ
The initial estimated cost of Nickโs prosthetic legs and the revamping of his Niagara-based homes to accommodate his needs was $500,000.
According to Karen, so far $230,000 has been raised towards the cost, which is almost halfway to the amount they wanted to raise. The prosthetic arms cost approximately $60,000 each and only last five or six years before they have to be replaced.
While Nickโs journey through his diagnosis has been full of complications, Portwine stressed that not all leukemia patients go through the same experience.
โNick has been an exceptional patient,โ she said. โI donโt want to leave the impression that this is the norm for individuals with ALL. Yes, they can become very sick and I think Nick is an example of how sick they can become, but it isnโt the norm. If you came into our clinic [at McMaster] and saw the kids running around and playing … you wouldnโt even know they had cancer.
โSo, I donโt want to leave the impression that all kids get as sick as this, but certainly they can. And Nickโs an example of that.โ








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